Michael & Savannah's July 4th Wedding at The White Room. Recap by a St. Augustine Wedding DJ.
- Matthew Connelly
- Jul 20
- 8 min read
An Independence Day celebration full of Lord of the Rings, Lana Del Rey, and one very unexpected Soulja Boy moment
There are wedding days that feel like a checklist, and then there are wedding days that feel like a party your whole life has been building toward. Michael and Savannah's July 4th celebration at The White Room in downtown St. Augustine was very much the second kind. Eighty five people spent the day together, dressed up on the hottest holiday of the summer, and ready to dance until the venue lights came up at 11.
As their St. Augustine wedding DJ, I get to see a lot of Fridays and Saturdays turn into a lot of "best days ever." This one had a specific kind of energy I want to talk about, because it's the kind of energy every couple hopes for and not every couple pulls off. Michael and Savannah did.
Let me walk you through how it went.
Setting the scene at The White Room
If you've never been inside The White Room, picture the front door of a historic building on King Street opening up into rooms that look like they were designed for photographs. Villa Blanco is the ceremony space, all soft light and clean lines and a straight aisle that made Savannah's entrance feel about a mile long in the best way. The side cocktail room has that famous checkered floor that shows up in every White Room wedding photographer's portfolio for a reason. It just works.
The White Room Weddings have a reputation in St. Augustine for good reason. The staff know exactly what they're doing, shout out to Destiny and Amy. The space knows what it is. And once the sun starts setting on King Street outside, it becomes one of the prettiest reception venues in Florida. For a DJ, that means the room does a lot of the atmosphere work for you. My job is to make sure the music is doing the other half.
Pre ceremony and the guests rolling in
Guests started arriving around 4. I curated 45 minutes of music from Michael and Savannah's shared 8 hour Spotify playlist, because there is no better mood setter than the actual music the couple listens to when they're together. It's a small thing, but the second guests walk in and hear a song they know is the couple's song, they exhale. They know they're in the right place.
At 4:30 sharp, we started the ceremony.
The ceremony at Villa Blanco, with a few beautifully unexpected choices
Jonas officiated. It was his first time behind a wedding mic, and if you were in the room you would never have known. I did a full mic check before doors opened and he walked through his notes with me twice. That's the kind of prep that makes a first time officiant look like a seasoned pro.
Now, the music. Savannah and Michael put together a ceremony soundtrack that told you a lot about them before either of them said a word.
The wedding party processional was "Concerning Hobbits" by Howard Shore. Yes, from The Lord of the Rings. It's playful and gentle and it made everyone in the audience grin, especially anyone who caught the reference right away. It's also just really pretty music to walk to.
Then came the flower guys/beer dudes. If you have never seen a wedding where the flower kids are grown men with buckets of Coors Light, you are missing out. I let a mellow standard wedding song carry them down the aisle, and then once they reached the back row I switched over to "Pretty Boy Swag" by Soulja Boy. Every single guest lost it. That is the kind of moment I live for as a DJ. It got the room in exactly the right headspace for what was coming next, which was the actual emotional part.
Savannah walked in to "Somewhere Only We Know" as a violin instrumental, escorted by both of her parents. There was not a dry eye in the place. Leon and Stacey walking their daughter down that aisle at Villa Blanco was one of those moments where you remind yourself that this is why people do this job.
The recessional was "All Your'n" by Tyler Childers, cued up right at the presentation. If you know Michael and Savannah, that song fits them in a way that's hard to explain unless you know them personally. It felt right. It also felt like a signal to the guests that it was time to get up, get outside, and get ready to celebrate. Tyler is one of my personal favorite artists.
Cocktail hour on the checkered floor
Cocktail hour in the side room is one of my favorite parts of any White Room wedding. Guests move from the ceremony space into that black and white checkered room, drinks start showing up, and the noise level starts climbing. I kept things pulled from the couple's Spotify playlist so the vibe stayed personal, but I nudged the tempo up slowly as we got closer to dinner. That is a small DJ trick I use at almost every wedding. You don't want to hit dancing energy too early, but you also don't want cocktail hour to feel like a waiting room. Wondering about my set up? I placed two speakers so the room was full of sound, but not too loud.
Dinner and introductions
At 6:30 we brought everyone into the main space for dinner. Once guests were seated, we did the intros.
Bridesmaids came in to "Hollaback Girl" by Gwen Stefani. That song is unhinged in the best possible way and it set the exact tone Savannah wanted. Groomsmen followed to "I'm Shipping Up to Boston" by the Dropkick Murphys. If you have ever wondered whether that song can turn a room into a stadium, I can confirm it absolutely can. This song has some serious energy.
And then, Mr. and Mrs. Pescatore. Michael and Savannah walked in and the whole room stood up.
Their first dance came right after the intro. They chose "Video Games" by Lana Del Rey, and we faded out around the one and a half minute mark. That's an intentional call I recommend to a lot of couples. A shorter first dance keeps the moment intimate and keeps the energy moving. Nobody has ever told me they wished their first dance had gone on longer.
Michael welcomed everyone after the first dance, and then introduced Leon, Savannah's father, for the blessing. Leon spoke from the heart. It was a great way to move into the meal.
Toasts that actually landed
Michael and Savannah opted for planned toasts only, which I always applaud. Open mic toasts are a beautiful idea in theory and a room reader's nightmare in practice.
We had four toasts total. Leon and Stacey Fowler spoke for Savannah's side. Tom and Kathleen Pescatore spoke for Michael's side. Savannah's sisters Avery and Jordan gave a joint toast that had the whole room laughing and then quietly crying about thirty seconds later. And Michael's brother Tommy, the best man, closed things out with a speech that will be quoted in the family for years.
That was it. Four toasts, no fluff, no dead air. Perfect.
Family dances, and the shift into party mode
Leon and Savannah danced to "My Little Girl" by Tim McGraw. Tim McGraw is undefeated at father daughter dances for a reason. Michael and his mom Kathleen danced to "Simple Man" by Lynyrd Skynyrd, which is one of my personal favorite mother son picks. That song hits different in a room full of Florida wedding guests. It felt like home.
Then we opened up the floor.
Open dancing, aka the whole point
Here's what Michael and Savannah told me when we first talked about music. They wanted a party. They wanted every generation on the floor at some point. They wanted their friends to feel like they were at a house party, and they wanted their aunts and uncles to have their moment too.
That is the exact brief I want as a wedding DJ, because it means I get to actually do my job. It also means I get to lean into a must play list that reads like a night out with your favorite people.
We opened with "The Night We Met" by Lord Huron as the first slow jam. Just enough of a breather before we hit the gas.
Then we went. "Mr. Brightside" landed the way "Mr. Brightside" always lands. "Livin' on a Prayer" turned into a full room karaoke moment. "Wellerman" by Nathan Evans had a whole group of Michael's friends stomping on the checkered floor. "The Galway Girl" by Steve Earle led into "I'm Shipping Up to Boston" again, because you can absolutely play a Dropkick Murphys song twice at a wedding with this crowd and nobody will complain.
"Bohemian Rhapsody" happened. All six minutes of it. Nobody left the floor. Not one person.
"Dancing Queen" by ABBA got the ladies out. "Rockstar" by Nickelback happened without a hint of irony and the crowd loved every second. "Fight for Your Right" by the Beastie Boys ended one of the peak stretches of the night.
I want to note something important here. Michael and Savannah had a do not play list too, and it was one of my favorite do not play lists I've ever gotten. No Wobble, no Cha Cha Slide, no Macarena, no line dance filler. That's a couple who knows what they want their party to feel like. It also frees up a DJ to actually mix music instead of hitting play on a novelty track and coasting for four minutes. I appreciate that every single time.
We did some blending across the night, but I kept it natural. Not over produced, not showy. Just enough to keep energy flowing between songs. That was the note Michael and Savannah gave me from the start and it was exactly the right one.
The little details that made it
A few things about this wedding I want to call out for any couples reading this and planning their own White Room wedding.
Michael and Savannah used a music request link ahead of time so guests could submit song ideas. Some of those requests made the night. A few did not, because part of being a wedding DJ is being the polite filter between "song someone remembered on the drive over" and "song that will actually get the room moving." Both are valid. But having that request link gave guests a way to feel involved in the music without turning the DJ booth into a line all night.
Their Spotify playlist was another great move. When couples give me a playlist, I get to know them. I get to understand the tempo they live at. I get to make picks during dinner and cocktail hour that feel like their picks, not mine. That matters more than most people realize.
And the fact that they made real decisions ahead of time mattered too. No garter throw. No anniversary dance. That's a couple that had actually thought about their own wedding instead of copy pasting a template. Every wedding does not need every tradition. This one didn't, and it was better for it.
Wrapping up at 11
Venue curfew at The White Room is 11 PM sharp. That's one of the very few constraints on a White Room wedding, and it means you get about four solid hours of dancing if you want them. Michael and Savannah wanted them. We used every minute.
The last stretch of the night was pure open dance floor. When 10:45 hit, we did a last dance with everyone, they I invited the guests outside to prepare for a formal exit, while Micheal and Savannah's danced a private last dance to "Cigerette Daydreams" by Cage the Elephant.
Being their St. Augustine wedding DJ
Every wedding I DJ is different, and every couple has their own version of what a great night looks like. Michael and Savannah's version was loud, funny, sincere, and completely them. That's what I try to do for every couple I work with as a St. Augustine wedding DJ. Not a wedding that looks like other weddings. A wedding that sounds like you.
I almost forgot. Are you wondering about the view of the fireworks from The White Room? Ya, it's epic. Probably the best view in St. Agustine.
If you're planning your own White Room wedding, or any St. Augustine wedding, and you want a DJ who reads the room, plans the details, and actually cares about your song choices, I would love to talk. The couple's playlist matters. The do not play list matters. The little switch into "Pretty Boy Swag" at exactly the right moment matters. All of it matters. That's the job.
Congratulations again to Michael and Savannah Pescatore. Thank you for the July 4th of a lifetime.
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